Journaling:

Met with W and SIL this mornong to hammer out a separation agreement. Actually nothing really changed except its in writing and binding....It was brutal my once best friend SIL was coming at me like the devil....Anyway after that I left....funny thing happened later today.....

Let me digress a minute, I was having lunch with my W several months ago...and she told me that she felt trapped being married to me...She said that she thought she needed to get divorced before she could ever think of getting back with me....I just thought she was talking trash to me...

So fast forward to today , hours after the meeting she called and was talking about the D and how to get it through the courts...I told her that I did not want the D and I wanted her back...She said that if your trying to wooo me then your doing it wrong...She said I need you to be the man that you keep saying your and do this for me....She ended it by saying H...no one knows what the future will hold....

So my question is ...is it possible that she does in fact need to D me. To let her put the old M to rest and think that a brand new relationship is possible.....Sounds a bit weird but the way she was talking on the phone gave me a very weird feeling. Anywho I was just wondering if any of the vets ever heard of a WAW doing this. I mean the OM is still in the picture even though he is out of the country for a while...Any advice or information would be helpful...Scott