I feel for ya, bboom. I am fortunate in that my W has not nitpicked about anything; so it is probably my own paranoia-which I am fighting to overcome-that makes me think my every move is being weighed and measured.
My W has not, however, indicated whether she is yet going to stay or go; in her words, our M is "a day at a time."
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS