Hi Talkartoon...I don't even know what to say. I have read HG's thread as well. It sounds like he wants to change, but isn't doing what is needed. You posting this here shows just how much you care and want this to work. I commend you for that. Regardless of everything, know that you tried everything to wake your husband up. Hopefully, he will read this and it will register that this is it. I always thought my W would stay regardless of my behavior. I found out that I was wrong. It's up to your H whether or not he chooses to fix himself.
