I hope this post fast. I need help I don't know how to finish answering my H. He text me today to tell me here is what he is offering me.

$6,000.00 in your bank acct for apartment and furniture (this by the way is not his money it is my money from UE)

1/2 401K approximately 21,000.00

Minimal or no child support

See/have kids whenever I want them

No DEBT He is going to assume house payment and 2nd mortgage when he refi's after I give him the house.


This will save us $5,000.00 each on attorney fees so I need to agree

I can have some pots/pans and silverware out of the house.

Other than that it is my clothing and my Car.

He wants to know what I think. I waited a while to respond and said you know what I want. He txt right back WHAT???? I waited about 2 hours txt back that I want us to work on this first.

I have gotten no response. I know he is right now fixing the bathroom that he took apart about 5 months ago so he can get the house appraised my daughter just called me.

So when I go home he is going to confront me and I am going to tell him I do not want to talk about this but what should I do???

I have all ready contacted an Attorney and he told me to do nothing right now. Let H file first.