Denver - I, too, think you might be entering the real piecing zone. I'm no expert, but based on what you've replayed for us, neither one of you is done - and both of you are pretty much all in, even if you (or she, really) can't admit it.
I just wanted to tell you, you're doing a great job. You know, don't beat yourself up over the small things (the women in the coffee shop, etc). We women don't like our men perfect, even though we might complain about it.
Me: 33, H: 32 M: 12 years T: 13 years No kids D-Day: 7/2009 Separated: 10/12/10 Future Unknown GITS
"There's a fire starting in my heart, reaching a fever pitch and it's bringing me out the dark." - Adele