Hello my friends. It's been a while since I visited here. Here is my update.

Life is really good, I'm having a blast, I'm happy, very content and peaceful. I'm legally separated, I've sold my house and bought the penthouse that I mentioned before and now working on possibly buying a business. Still working for H's company, but no longer as an owner.

My new relationship is wonderful and getting better and better (if that's even possible lol) as time goes on...my BF is a wonderful man, caring, romantic, attentive...never felt so loved and pampered...still amazed.

Couple of weeks ago, my ex wanted to talk...and guess what...he wanted to reconcile...said that he misses what we had and that if he knew 2 years ago what he knows now he wouldn't have left...I asked him what about your relationship with OW...is it over? He said NO, nothing changed....and I just thought why is he even talking to me?...told him that I'm not going to put myself in that position ever again...as you may remember he asked to R 2x before and I said yes and then restarted with OW again...broke my heart all over again...

So after I said no to reconciliation, he had the audacity to ask me not to say anything to OW's husband, because he didn't want the OW to know that he wants to come back to me.

Anyway, H is still in MLC...he still has tons of work to do...he needs to break it up with OW and spend time on his own to work on his issues.

I don't know what the future will bring. I just know that I'm happy, living my life fully and joyously one day at the time.

Hope everyone is doing well, I'll try to catch up with you all.

Hugs

Mila


M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO