JTB .
25 gave me grief for having too many R talks. She said before that we talk too much.

It was calm rational talk, not lead by emotions. And it was the first one in a couple weeks.


25

JTB had the same issue about me vs her moving out. As I explained to him,- She would move out, but our youngest is just 19 months and we agreed it's better for her to stay in the house.

JTB suggested I was too accommodating. Perhaps. But that is the plan.

also I'm NOT hiding how I feel nor was I mopey angry. My answer of being upset with myself was partially true but the other reason was not worth fighting about.

Also, she said what you said about wanting an real answer. But some answers are hot topics. Like yesterday, if i said I was upset b/c I wanted to have sex. That wouldn't have gone over well. There is a place for those talks. I hear ya though I feel I need to work on those myself instead of bring to my W every instance I am down.

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
--Jean Jacques Rousseau.