You're both right about the changes being more visible; perhaps that is why W has not mentioned leaving or D, and seems to be content with staying.

For now, anyway...

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
BITS