well update were not completely back together but doing better i think Ive talked her out of going thru with the divorce and trying to work on it before the divorce is final. she says she thinks Ive changed and has even admitted her faults and said she hasn't fully forgiven me for the affair. she still says she thinks the divorce will be better that there will be no pressure and that if i continue to change and she see's it then she will work more on the marriage, who knows.
