XYZ is here, but I won't be staying...

[XYZ]

A week ago today, I sent W a proposed property settlement and asked her to reply to me with edits within a week. As of today, nothing. Just sent it to my lawyer saying write this up. Maybe she'll reply when she get the documents served.

In our state, parents are required a attend a 4-hour parenting course. In the same email last week I told her this and asked if she wanted to go together or alone. No reply. So, I'm going next week without so much as a comment to her. She can take care of herself now, I'm done done done. No more babysitting.

She want's a D, she gets a D. I sick and tied of not leading. This isn't the direction I wanted to lead in, but it's the direction we're going and I always prefer to lead the way.

This is all such a 180 from where I've been the last 8 months, that it wouldn't surprise me to see her reaction being a reversal; what would surprise me is my response to her reaction - because at this point, I really don't know which way I would go. Guess it would depend on how sincere I feel her to be.

Nice place to be when you (FINALLY) figure out that heads I win; tails I win.