but the answers you need are ALL within your thread already.
If you want to make things WORSE, keep freaking out and calling her and nagging her to reassure YOU some more
keep pushing her to comfort and reassure YOU b/c it's all about you feeling secure
never mind HER fears and never mind HER anxiety....make it all about YOU
b/c that's what you did before...
how did that work for you? Oh, wait, I remember. You almost got her to file...
So, hopefully I just slapped some sense into you. Go read the many posts you have gotten on this exact issue.
No, your w will NOT think you are too distant. She might think you actually have changed...
she might think you learned how to back off and respect her wishes...she might...
Who said ignore her? We said be upbeat, pleasant. Don't you have things to talk about other than your feelings?
Of course you do.
You can do this.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
