Cannot help but wonder that if the odds are no more than 50/50 that we can still be rejected at the end of MLC, then perhaps we should walk away now and get the hurt over in one go as it were.
This mindset is a selfish mindest.
This is your marriage we are talking about here, not some game, not some percentage chance. And For the record 50-50? Those are awesome odds.
If all you are doing is looking at numbers, then honestly this is not the place for you. If you are looking a the odds right now, instead of defying them, you'll find easier reasons to quit down the road.
Just because your wife is not upholding her wedding vows, does that give you the right to drop your own vows?
This is the 'worse' in the for better or worse.
Better is easy, look at all the married people who can do easy, I can do easy when I am sleeping, with a blindfold and my hands tied behind my back.
Worse?
Worse took everythig I had.
The only number you should ever concern yourself with is the percentage chance YOU bring to the odds. You are the wildcard, and you affect those odds, every minute, every hour and every day.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
