I don't get this part at all. H goes to his both son's functions from a girlfriend he had in high school. His mother and the rest of the family just went to his high school graduation.

Yet, he doesn't contact our D14 at all, didn't attend her confirmation....nothing.

Has anyone gone through this?? Sometimes I honestly think he is doing it to be spiteful to me. H knows how I feel and always felt when anyone hurt any of my children's feelings.

None of this makes sense and I know MLC doesn't make sense but he is choosing to be in both of his sons lives, and not our daughter's or my S's that he raised.

I found out he is telling everyone that our D14 doesn't want to see him (lie), and then will tell others that he isn't allowed to see her.


M 41
H 35
D 12
S 18
Separated 11/08