Well guys, it was a bit of a shock I must admit, seeing what may well be my situation set out in black and white.
I have read alot on line and recently started to read the Divorce Busting Book, so the learning begins in 'earnest'.
Still not sure it is MLC, she has not given me a list of my apparent failings/ faults, although its my fault we have socialised more. 90% of the time she is perfectly fine toward me and, no screaming matches etc. I had started to stop 'trying' ( calls, gifts etc ) before I discovered the 180, because I was just not getting any real response/ feedback/ follow on.
I think this has had some effect, but still unsure if it might not be too harsh at this stage. I find that I struggle to get past a week without touching on OR resulting in some upset.
It feels that I am sharing her with others, and this upsets me greatly, in addition to the unknown future. How do some of you guys hang on ? Cannot help but wonder that if the odds are no more than 50/50 that we can still be rejected at the end of MLC, then perhaps we should walk away now and get the hurt over in one go as it were.
