I agree with Harrier that you can't replace the history. At some point in your life, you'll look back and remember all the good things between you and your W, no matter what happens.
It's our jobs as LBS to create a new life and new history for ourselves.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011