I know how you are feeling about missing your W 9. I have those same feelings this morning.
On the issue of leaving your kids alone for the night, would you want your W to let you know if things were the other way around? I'd personally want to know. JMO At least you validated her feelings.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa