My xh was very hostile, and we were not friends, not was he friendly to his children. Very recently he has being trying to contact them and spend time with them and with old friends. On one level it sounds like reconnection but I am far from convinced about this.
I just got an email with 21 photos - this from a man I have not seen or spoken to in over a year [apart from in Court!] He has told an old friend of mine that things are good between us now. Well, ummm no they aren't. We have had a cautious and friendly email exchange, but nothing personal and no mending of fences . . . . The photos are all of places I know, and he took my eldest son [who he hadn't seen in 4 years] to the restaurant where we had lunch the day after we got married. I find it all very very wierd.
I am going on with my own life, a little traumatized from recent surgery, but otherwise fine. IMO my xh is still firmly in MLC, and if he has decided not to be hostile to me anymore that it good.
