An end to hostilities?

[BeingMe]

Hi Beatrice ... thanks for visiting my thread, and giving me your kind advice.

With your H, and the amount of years you and he spent married, I would definitely entertain a friendship, but move slowly.

Take care and let your spirit guide you. I do agree, that no-one gets out of this life alive, so one should be compassionate (which it sounds you are) to your ex-mate, if nothing else.