Thanks for chiming in fellas. You are both right about just being a friend that she can lean on in a time like this.
She knows that she has always been able to count on me when dealing with these types of situations. I'm still the first person she calls. I'm working on being a better listener to what she is saying and less of a fixer. Not that I can fix any of what she is dealing with.
Last night my W asked me to continue praying for her mom. I told her, "of course, would you like me to have pastor call to pray with you too?". She did. He called her this morning, coincidently right before I returned her call. She was very appreciative.
The high road is much better than the alternative.
An update on the MIL. The doctors ran an MRI this morning and another CT scan per a convo with my W this afternoon. It is looking more and more like she did have a stroke. The results of the test have not come back, but unfortunately it is not good. The results should be in tomorrow.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa