basically we are seperated now what?

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So If the W Isn't pushing for the seperation but I feel as If I do not go through with it she will feel as though she can get away with an affair again. Also that I feel i need to seperate because I am approaching the point of not wanting to reconcile.

Today I felt like walking in and saying I am done I want a divorce. What to do? I am so sure she is in a MLC.

Need some guidance here or referral to a good thread on the same.

Thanks all.