Wow, she sounds like she's really feeling you pull away. I'm coming into this mighty late and it sounds like you're mighty tired, hurt, numb, discouraged, etc. but it also sounds like the hostility is pretty strong between the two of you. Since you have these, I'm sure, precious little children, you and wife will have many years ahead of needing to be a team for them. Do you basically respect your W as a mom?


me: 57
H: 54
M: 18 y
Affair over on Dday: 6/99
Never split-up but it was a hard road
D: 38 GD:18
I forget so I come back here I know these principles are the way to go which ever way it goes!