sorry 25....just now saw your post about smaller paragraphs....will do just that next post!

and you're right to some extent about M with H....still in the middle of it all due to not being officially D yet, if ever, but looking back over whole R dynamic (as I'm sure you'll pick up on in previous post) doesn't show a good healthy R from the get-go.

me 32
H 30
T 8 years
M ~5 years
DD 3 years
first d-bomb dec 06
second bomb may 07
third bomb july 08
finally seperated jan 09
a move for "progress'" sake may 11