If one of you did not wait the 2 years, how would adultery affect the D? Would it change legal positions or does it just speed up the process?
IIRC, if one commits adultery, or if there has been "unreasonable behaviour" then a divorce could be granted within 6 months, otherwise both parties could only get a D if they have been living seperately for at least 2 years. Plus I think that the person who commits adultery is looked upon for a lesser perspective
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
But really, you told her you would wait the two years (even though it's possible you might find someone new, unless you lived in a cave, in the mountains, with little to no oxygen, and only mineral water to live on...). So she can readily glean from that, you are saying you are prepared to wait for her.
You may not have meant that, but it's there for someone to pull from the words. And so... the ball is in her court. As she has just told you that she can't c either of you (her) waiting two years.
Couldnt leave it at that, so text back saying
I have received a lot more attention over the last few weeks than I can remember for quite some time, and I have been asked out on dates, but I have chosen not to at this time.
That would be the final nail!!!!
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