I'm lost. need help with WAW

[GAL Man]

Half hour after W left I get a call from her, which I ignore, then vm message asking me to give her a call regarding our mutual friends.

I called W back as I don’t want to be put in the middle, W says that they are hardly speaking now and that she has received a lengthy email from one of them. I told W that I have not and will not say anything bad about her to anyone, its more to do with how W is really with them, and how she has been acting.

Anyway, subject changes and I asked W why she keeps asking D14 if I am seeing anyone, which she didn’t really answer, only that she had asked her a few times. I thought this would be a good time to put my boundary down (due to her partying etc) and stated that I would not accept living in an open marriage. W asked what I meant by this, so I just repeated it and said my morals will not allow me to do so. W said so you will wait 2 years then, if I have to was my response.

I also asked W to have the kids over a weekend in August to repay the favour I agreed to, didn’t say what it was for though, but the dates I said were wrong so need to text her now!

Than back to dark (it was about the kids though!)