[ninelives]

LIB:

You know that answer is always to take the high road. Be there for her as a friend would be for another close friend.

You dont have to do more than that. I was there for an entire week for my W when her mom died but pulled back when i apparently misread a text from her. I thought she wanted me to pull back but she said later that is not what she meant.

Anyway, when things like this happen , IMO, you have to put all else aside and be the bigger person. Your kids need to see a person that can handle adversity and still be the kind of man they can admire.

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