Added note: feel H always wants other to do everything for him...in case of our M, this means continuing to push my buttons till I crack and file for him. And I'm being the stubborn doodiehead that doesn't want to spend money for something I never wanted in the first place.
me 32 H 30 T 8 years M ~5 years DD 3 years first d-bomb dec 06 second bomb may 07 third bomb july 08 finally seperated jan 09 a move for "progress'" sake may 11