Read your post and a lot of defending behavior of his that's just crap
sorry but you are being treated badly in exchange for room...not food b/c you pay for that so you have a roof over your head
since nothing he does is any of your business I'd assume you are okay with being roomates except he has the "right" to your car
only by your subterfuge with an insurance company will you be able to "say no" (but you'll blame the company and not simply tell him NO, for obvious reasons you cannot drive my car again, period).
This isn't hard for me to see but clearly it is for you.
His "inconsistencies"?? Oh, you mean the times he says he'd like to work on the m...and what else??
and nothing else
b/c all else points to a man either heading to divorce
and or
cake eating with his stbx and daughter....
the rest of your post is logistical in nature. I don't know your profession or job but you need to get on your own feet and get the heck out of there
what motivation does he have to work on things with you
if merely saying it, suffices?
You've allowed him to DO whatever he wants...with the possible caveat of "requiring" a kind word thrown in now & then
but I suspect if he never said a kind word again, you'd stick around a long time anyhow.
I know I'm being a "tough love" person right now and I don't want to hurt you
but today I'm in a mood for telling people what I think is true,
rather than my usual pep talks
You're treated badly by this man and have been for a long time.
I see nothing changing there by what you are doing.
Sorry
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
