(((((((((((((((TL))))))))))))) (((((((((((((((LN))))))))))))) my fav people!!!! how could I have missed this post? I'm sorry to see you here my dear TL, and you don't have to defend your every post, to all who know you we know you are a fighter, you are not a half-way kind a guy and that you hanged on and fought for your M with all you've gotten. Sadly, she is in another state of mind, it's hard to DB for the newbies and not have expectations of this and that. You are well beyond that, and you know that, and I totally respect where you are now... as there comes a point when one needs to stop following someone walking away from us (Lord knows I did that one too many times).
It's a blessing you got to be with your kids til now, you have done very well, and as anti-DB this might sound, it might be time to walk away from this M, and I only say this because TL has pieced for years and fogiven what other men might seen unforgivable, there is nothing he hasn't done.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.