no one makes the choices your man is, this fast, with an OW like this, only to '
say, "FINALLY I AM LIVING AN AUTHENTIC LIFE!!""
If money matters a lot to him, no way will SHE contribute more than she benefits. Why should she? She has a kid to protect.
BTW, how's your guy with kids? Kids he never met before?
Yeah, bet that'll be an UBER FUN time to adjust....
He may be done with your R, maybe,
but 3 years from now he won't be with her
or I'm completely seeing this wrong, like 100%....
of all the weird MLCs affairs,
his is the oddest and least likely to survive long term. He'd have to really want to be "right" to stick it out with the problems they'll face
I know that all I know is what you tell us, but you sound objective
and that's my take on it
but I don't want to have hope paralyze you
no matter what, you'll have to be in a very different place when he resurfaces hence the 180s and GAL...better job, new place, new people in your life, etc
and if you do get back, please marry so you are never vulnerable like this again.
or don't marry but have enough on your own so you can't be this uprooted.
good luck, we're all here for you
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
