Sorry If everyone thinks I was too rough on Betsey.
I think she knows I love her and want only the best for her...the long 2x4 post was to get some thoughts going in the other direction...mainly how Mr. W may be perceiving things...and I think she understood that....It just appeared too many people were slapping her on the back and that was reinforcing ignoring some very important clues to her...and I think so very much of her I could not sit by and watch these slip away unnoticed.
She has been my rock and my sanity these last few months and I am really saddened that what I said may have caused too much distress.
I am taking a break from the bb. I am not dealing well with things in my own sitch and so feel that I am in no way qualified to be commenting on others.....
Things have gone down hill so fast and so badly, I don't feel I can cope with them any more.
I feel like I would be fooling myself to think there is hope for my situation.
I wish everyone here the best of luck, you are the most impressive group of people it has ever been my privledge to have "met" and I will keep you all in my prayers always.
