So I have a question.....My W is not a WAW, I am the offending party here. Do I treat and act as if she is a WAW? I mean I have been going down that road. See a photography job out of town today and I told her I was going to go out with my friends since the kids were spending the night with friends. No sense in me sitting around the house,right?

25 yes I do understate things a bit...only because I hate getting my hopes up if I am wrong. I mis-stated when I said my e-mail was "short". Didnt mean that I was angry or hateful. The message was just brief. I didnt try and tell her every second of my day, frankly I dont think she would care if I told her I was set on fire, and monkeys flew out of my butt. SO.....sorry for the confusion.

I sorry to seem so dumb about this stuff but I havent been able to find any sitch. that is similar to mine. Most of the A sitch. here are the victims in this and I just not sure what do.
Thanks all for your continued support and information. You have been incrediable sources of information and I am sure my sitch would be so much worse if not for your guidance. I did recommend this site to my W, during our convo. the other day. I told her she might find it helpful. She wasnt interested, but hey I tried.