I agree with CTH here.

Unless something in that home that S will be exposed to will directly do damage to him, you really can't say a thing about it. Unless it is written into your D agreement that S can not be around certain people you are just going to have to be quiet and hope for the best.

I know that's not what you want to hear, but that is the reality of D. We can't be in direct control of our children's experiences and exposures any longer.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!