amen to what that L said. No such thing as a spouse "Giving" the other spouse a divorce these days. It's a state granted deal. (Though some say it's the church but legally, it's the state)
THough delays can happen, no one can STOP a divorce. Do you have a L now? Please say yes (or get one asap) as it's clear you two cannot resolve this amicably.
Plus
The more marital revising he does, the more he's getting angry. NOT a good sign.
I mean dear God, he won't finish the house repairs, he won't make a move, OR sell the house he won't repair, as is, and NOW he's stalling the divorce??? The man is paralyzed as a life style.
Anyone see a pattern glowing here??
You know what you have to do, and I think it stinks. So, hold your nose
b/c you cannot join him in "stuckville". It's an ugly stop and you've been there a long time already.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016