My buddy told me today that his W, ( who is very good friends with my ex) , is pulling back from their friendship. She just cant stand what my W has done to our family and thinks very highly of me. She was walking the other day with one of her friends when my W pulled up beside her and asked if she would call her next week because she was off work and would like to walk with them. Buddy's wife didnt call her and now my W is put off with her. Apparently she was driving , saw my buddy's wife walking with friend and my W, did a u turn pretty well to avoid her and looked away when buddy's wife waved at her.
This "buddy" crap pisses me off. Just to let you know, when your Wife sees this, it's not always a good thing.
You accomplish nothing accept "pride" from hearing this. You justify YOU, but you don't get the fact that she still feels what she feels. Her? Being wrong or right in her thinking doesn't ever mean you turn the world against HER, YOU can look at her with remorse and I'm "sorry" you feel that way, but you need to understand she's running for a reason, even if you don't know why.
Does it mean you accept her bad behavior? Nope. Do you accept the fact she is with someone else? Nope. BUT you don't "root" for her to fail, just understand what you did and except her choice. You don't have to like it OR put up with it, but don't make it a "Look at it thread". My opinion...feel sorry for her; you can't do this til YOU know that you are better than this. Hope it makes sense.
