I hope you know it would be mostly fear that would Prevent you from forgiving fear of being hurt again, fear about loss of pride and wounded ego none of these are reasons to forgive, Least of all fear
I agree. Fear is a B!tch.However, I believe your W has told you what she wants. Validate her and move the opposite way.
Time and abstinence is what is needed at this point. Get away from the boards and figure out what you want Denver. You have a great opportunity here, but she does have to prove SHE is done with OM before you ever move forward. You will know.
