When XW starts talking about things at my house and my time -- the anger rises up quickly, and I'm concentrating very hard on trying to live without anger.
My house is my house and my time with my girls is my time and there are boundaries. If XW wants to set rules for the girls when they are with me then she should have stayed married.
It had better be very serious for you to bring it up because it will likely be a fight. Non-custodial parents already are a little leery because in the eyes of society and the courts, we are a lesser entity. Being dictated too would just be a double insult.
I have concerns about D12 and D8 and what they are hearing from XW, but I haven't said anything because that is her time. I can only offer them myself as a role model and let them decide.
Now, if she's snorting cocaine in front of them, that's a whole different story. I'm just saying it really has to be serious to bring it up.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
