I see a lot of rescuing of your h that makes me wonder what you get out of the m
so that's why I feel so strongly about co-dependence. I just don't get it, otherwise
meaning I don't hear or know of his attributes, (So I don't know what's really so wonderful about being m to him) but I know of his "disease" and it's a life drainer
Anyhow, no one said you have to give up HOPE...but I fear you are giving up way more than that
just my .02
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016