Denver,

I apologize for this final hijack...however I feel that I must answer one question posted by SBH...

In the meantime, I hope that you really are beginning to understand WHY forgivness is so important...

Originally Posted By: Sad_but_happy
I hate to respond to you Cat but I must..

You never lied or was dishonest to H about anything EVER?

I don't buy it...


SBH,

You don't need to buy anything I say...

The answer to your question was actually in one of my earlier posts to you...

I said that I had an affair...first. If that isn't a lie, then I don't know what is...

And then I lived for 15 years, as I expect your W is going to be living, and how I hope that Denver's W never has to live if they reconcile...

OTOH, when my H had his affairs, I chose to forgive him. And I am much happier for it...

25, thank you...


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox