Soap box much 25? Yea, I get on one every now and then... But so do you...

In all honesty, I love this debate. And I stand firm in my beliefs. Without anger... That's right, it's not anger, it's passion...

Most of us forgive the A out of fear, at least at first. Fear of losing everything, fear of change, fear of being alone.

Denver set a boundary about OM. His W did not respect it. In fact, she was lying to Denver all along. And the ONLY reason he knows about the OM is she got caught.

So what's the solution and advice from everyone on this board? Forgive her AGAIN...

And that's fine if that's what you want Denver.

But as I said before, how many times is the LBS supposed to get kicked in the BA!!s? At some point instead of standing right in front of our S with easy access to our NUT$, you have to turn around and........ Walk away.

And I respect that everyone has their own limits and time line for this.

Including me...


A few posts ago Cat asked if I was looking for perfection...

I'm not...

I'm looking for a partner that is faithful and that will not cheat no matter how difficult life is...

Because that's what I deserve... And that's what I expect...

Have an awesome weekend all...

GO BRUINS!!!!

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012