WAW for 6+ years -- Need Help

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Thank you all for reading my posts. Its been quite an eye opener having others "look into" my life from real glasses and not my old rose-colored ones. All of you make good points. Wow, it seems like I've been breaking most of the DBing rules for the last 6+ years. As I stated earlier, I started seeing my MC on 29 April of this year and she recommended the DB book and this site. You have all been a blessing to me with your comments and letting me know that I'm now on the right track. Comparing these last six weeks to the last six years is like comparing apples to oranges or night and day. I have 'grown' these last 6 weeks and, as I told my MC today, I am starting to get a little of my 'swagger' back. I used to be in great shape and enjoy life and I just let this suck the air right out of me. I am getting stronger GreenBlue, but I do want to try the DBing method as well. I have started working out again and going back to college plus I've been doing my own thing in the yard and around the house on weekends. I want to be able to tell myself that I, indeed, did the right things to save my marriage and, if it doesn't work out, I can keep my head held high and move on. I'm not saying it won't hurt like heck if she were to leave, but at least I'll know I truly did do my best. I will definitely keep on keeping on with GAL and gettting stronger. Thank you for you comments as well DGurl and 25yearsMIC. Ya'll have a great weekend! I'm hoping for some sun in SoCal this weekend.