when you have moved on

[forward]

If I were in a different place, i w ould say X is changing some. I see that he seems to make more effort to see D. He talks to me some and there is a lot less anger. He sounds sad and lonely. He had a third operation and I feel sorry for him.

But...I am in a different place now. I would like to see X come out of MLC and be a real parent to our D and grow up, basically, but I am not sure I'd want him back. I do find that he pulls at my heart strings some because I feel bad for him. But typically, I am preoccupied with other things after that.

I read a good quotation that I like; It is not others who must change, but you.