Fool me once, Shame on ME

[ninelives]

Hey, all I dont know where my other thread went so im starting a new one.

She has called oldest son three times, possibly 4. For small talk. He is getting annoyed. I simply dont answer the phone anymore and will get call display put back on my plan.

I havent responded to anything she has done, dont want to get sucked back into any R talk if that is her goal. My IC once told me that when I ignore her, her well runs dry and she needs a fix to fill her well up again, then she pulls away once she knows she still has me. Not going there. Still feeling good.

My buddy told me today that his W, ( who is very good friends with my ex) , is pulling back from their friendship. She just cant stand what my W has done to our family and thinks very highly of me. She was walking the other day with one of her friends when my W pulled up beside her and asked if she would call her next week because she was off work and would like to walk with them. Buddy's wife didnt call her and now my W is put off with her. Apparently she was driving , saw my buddy's wife walking with friend and my W, did a u turn pretty well to avoid her and looked away when buddy's wife waved at her.

Maybe this is also weighing on w's mind that even her friend's dont respect her or her decision.

Another collegue of mine said she say her and OM at Canadian Tire ( like Walmart) and W didnt say hi. Also collegue told me OM was hideous looking.

So I wonder why she is calling the house so much? Is there trouble in paradise? Her problem.

Had another good day.

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