While I understand their skepticism, I'm at a loss for words on their perceived ultimatum to you.
Do they realize that they are on earth because of your R with their dad? Or does this not matter?
I know that you will have the conversation that you need to have with them when you are ready. Don't forget your DB skills....
Because your kids did to you what the book recommends we not do to our WASs: issue ultimatums that back them into a corner, leaving the backed in person little choice but to make a decision that will hurt everyone.
I don't think you are going to do that, but the risks are inherent.
A mother's love is endless. I think you'll find a way to convey that without abandoning the path that you've chosen (to remain married to their dad).
I'm so sorry.
Hugs,
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
