I do appreciate the input, and don't mean to be combative, but it's like from your vantage point you're only seeing one part of the elephant, but are frustrated with me because I drew a picture of the whole animal, and it doesn't jive with what you think you see. Maybe it's the other way around, that's certainly possible. However, my attitude has to be that I've done a lot of work on myself, have done a lot for my wife and for my family, and if she isn't interested, then that's simply her choice and I have to accept it. And I can.
You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'
