Very true Jack. Well I started the backing off even more so today. I havent emailed the wife my normal "good morning, how are you today" email. Kept myself busy at work. Wouldnt you know I got two from her for weekend plans and to ask me how I was doing today. Was kind of shocking....anyway my responses were polite but short. Told her I had been kind of busy but ok. So it has been a good day.