I think " throwing darts " may come back to haunt you and will defiantely not hit the " Target"
Why can't you just think that saying to yourself ? Why confront someone that is nasty and angry?
Just stick with the " I'm sorry that you are hurting" and leave it that?
JMHO
Sunny
P.S. In the past when Iv'e been dying to use a DARTand DID throw it his way..things just exculated to the point of a full blown out, dragged out fight!