Hey Nine - I saw something that you posted on Denver's thread about your W calling you "black and white". STBX always said that about me recently. I am that way, but I now know why she said that. Because she was gray about our relationship and seeing that way allowed her to feel that it was ok to have an EA/PA with OM/Boss. In short, she was gray when it suited her.
Still, I am learning to be less black and white about some things. But not the things that really matter to me - like marriage vows!
So glad for my pact with you and StillLearning. I was sooooo tempted to contact STBX today. I used to visit her on my way to work on Fridays, especially if I was looking good. I thought of that today when I put on a pair of pants she always complimented on...and it's Friday.
