Originally Posted By: ninelives
Or am I feeling good because she is miserable.


This is a big gotcha. I can't say this didn't cross my mind yesterday. I find myself falling into this trap from time to time.

Originally Posted By: ninelives
Her happiness or misery should not be a measuring stick for mine.


Yep. Detach!

BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26