Please try Retrovaille if she's willing. It helped us go from piecing to restored, and it helped every couple we saw go in a good direction at least.
I replaced the "new guy" photo with my h's again. Maybe that would happen to you.
2 years out, >80% of those who attended Retrovaille are still married. Since only troubled m's were there in the first place, that is pretty darn good.
At least you'll know you tried "everything" and if given a choice, I'd rather stay in the m a bit too long, than end a bit too soon.
Just mo. Good luck, and if you can't, you can't.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
