I am so lost... Please someone help me!

[25yearsmlc]

re read the list, Live by it

and be GLAD she's not telling her family. She's not sure enough to "announce"


the more people that know, the more it Cements their choice.

The more people who know, the harder it is to turn things around, imo

Unlike faith, I'm not nearly sure there's an OM yet, but I'm pretty sure she's "playing". If there were an OM, she'd be more likely to have given her family a heads up just to get them used to the idea of her not being m to you...and later, much, she'd tell them about OM...just my theory


but She wants the attention of fun loving men, and freedom and spice she hasn't felt in a long time...so she's ripe for an A

What can you do? You do YOUR WORK and DB like a mad man.

First you MUST NOT YELL. You gotta get a grip on that. Seriously.

You have to be the BEST Dad possible.

Start the bedtime routine earlier and you'll be more relaxed about it.

Stress (like from yelling??) at bed time makes the kids more hyper


I strongly suggest you take Faith's advice and go out with your "new friends" or take a class that forces you to interact with other people.

That makes it easier to Not obsess, which is only going to make you nuts and then you'll be more likely to blow up.


Plus it makes her aware of you as a "man" other women could find interesting...


it's gimmicky but look at how wacky you feel and all you KNOW is she's going out with friends...

Hang in there and don't panic. It never helps.


Johnie, when you post, can you break your paragraphs up so it's easier to read?

Thanks


ps READ THE LIST AND LIVE BY IT....Note the attitude you have to adopt...do it